Valentines Day on Mars & Venus
What Do Men & Women Really Want?
While men are wonderful providers and
dads, many men forget the importance of romance in their relationships.
Valentines Day is the one day during the year that they are reminded
to focus on their partner. So what do women really want for
Valentines Day?
The secret desire of every woman is to
feel extraordinarily “special" to the man she loves.
When a man does or says things that make a woman feel
loved and cared for, her heart is open and she is fulfilled. Listed
below are some examples of those acts of love that score big with
a woman. Just remember that on Venus we each have our own preferences.
So what scores big with one woman may not do so well with another.
On Venus we believe: if you really love me, you will know what makes
me feel special. (Hint: Think about what you did to make her fall
in love with you.)
1) Plan a romantic evening, in advance.
2) Get her a Valentines Day card and write on it what makes her
so special.
3) Bring her flowers, not the ones from the grocery store.
4) Give her non-sexual cuddling, that’s right men, I said
non-sexual.
5) Plan a romantic getaway – one night at a bed and breakfast
feels like a week.
6) Surprise her with chocolates or her favorite food.
7) Write her a love note or poem.
8) Give her a day off from all chores and actually do those chores
yourself.
9) Get tickets to a show or performance that she likes.
10) Watch a “chick flick” with her, without complaining
or falling asleep.
The goal is to let your partner know although
she may not be perfect, that she is the perfect mate for you.
Venusians, on the other hand, don't always
need help planning romance but, because of multiple responsibilities,
they often forget how to relax and let go, which is frustrating
for their partner. So what do men really want for Valentines Day?
Most men say that all they want is for
their partner to be happy. Then they know they have done a good
job.
A man’s self esteem is very much based upon
his success at the job he’s doing. At work, he feels very
competent and comfortable in that environment. At home however,
he may feel less sure if he is doing well unless his partner let’s
him know that she is happy and appreciates the job he does in the
relationship. The following are examples of what scores big with
men and since you are a sensitive Venusian, you will know which
one would work for your partner.
1) Get him a Valentines Day card and write in it
all the things he does for you that you appreciate.
2) Write him a love note that describes your trust and confidence
in him as a partner.
3) Get tickets to an event that he would like.
4) Give him a day off with no list.
5) Watch a movie he likes.
6) Give him a coupon for guilt free “cave time”.
7) Tell him all the reasons you are happy with your life together.
8) Receive the gift he gives you with much appreciation.
9) Get him a coupon to Victoria’s Secret and allow him to
go with you to pick out something that he would like you to wear.
10) Have sex and let him know how much you enjoyed it!
The goal is to let your partner know what
he is doing right and how that makes you happy.
Remember, when we do loving acts for our
partner we feel our love the most!
Make it a Happy Valentines Day!
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